What if I told you that feeling unsupported could be an illusion? 😱

We all crave support. There’s nothing wrong with that.

But what happens when it feels like it’s not there? 

I’ll tell you. Frequency Illusion might play tricks on your mind.🤯 

Let me explain.

Ever notice when you focus on not getting support, it feels like no one is supporting you? *eye rolls* 

But hold up! 

Before you accept that feeling as gospel. 

I gotta tell you, there’s more to the story.

Frequency Illusion explained

Frequency Illusion is when what you’ve been thinking about keeps popping up smack dab in your face. It’s when what you pay attention to starts showing up everywhere. 

  • Ever got a new car, and suddenly, it’s like everyone’s driving the same one?
  • Ever felt like social media was listening because something on your mind kept popping up on your social feed? 
  • Ever had a crush on someone, and suddenly you start seeing stuff that reminds you of them everywhere?

Yep, that’s what I’m talking about. 

And guess what? 

It works with both positive and negative thoughts! 

That means that when you lock in on feeling unsupported, your brain magnifies it. 

A welcome surprise

So, here’s the twist . . . The ‘lack of support’ you feel might be an illusion! 

And I wrote this blog to say: Don’t let this mind trick fool you.

Your mind spotlights what matters to you. 

When this happens, it means your brain is doing its job. 

But it also means what you think is happening might not be entirely true.

Next, let’s get into how to feel your feelings and not park in them. 

How to get support and ignite joy

But hey, let’s NOT ignore your feelings. 

Illusion or not — it feels real to you, and focusing on it is NOT helping.

Because locking in on the lack of support can drain your joy and stop moments that could be happening.

So here’s the key takeaway to shift your mindset…

✔️ Know that everyone is not against you. 

✔️ Know that you don’t need everyone’s support to thrive.

🌱 Focus on those who uplift you, need you, and honor what you carry. 

@lolacabaya 🌤️ don’t let your dream opportunity slip away…take time today to rehearse what you’re good at. you never know who’s watching 👀 but you can prepare (NOW) to WOW them. #thesmokingprophet #upliftingthoughts #thingsiwishiknewyesterday #affirmationquote #propheticaffirmation #intuitivecreator ♬ original sound – Lola Cabaya

Transform your thoughts, transform your world

Now that you’re in on this mind-blowing mystery let’s make a mindset shift!

Shift your focus to who’s showing up for you. 

Here’s one way to do it! 

By being aware of Frequency Illusion, you can control your thoughts better!

And as you transform your thoughts, you’ll transform your world!

So take a moment today to reach out and appreciate those who support you.

This can shift your mood and make that other person feel good too! 

Remember, your energy is precious, and it’s time to lock in on what truly matters!

👋🏽 Hi, I’m LOLA ⸻ the creator of offbeat life advice brand, The Smoking Prophet, owner of a growing content agency, and cultivator of life (family first)!

Most days, you can find me at my desk, in my garden, or on the go. My super-social family keeps me on my toes!

Follow The Smoking Prophet to ignite your creativity, grow spiritually, and blaze your own trail online!

Email me to keep this talk going!

💌 lola@thesmokingprophet.com


1 Comment

Tazze · at

I love your encouragement and I agree this works for me. I also found out that consistency plays a major key. Thank you

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