What To Do When Your Partner Feels Insecure | Dante Barlow

HOW I HELP MY WIFE FEEL PRETTY

Maybe the title seems a little bit unbelievable, but it’s true. Occasionally, Lola, my wife, and the creator of The Smoking Prophet feels unpretty. And when this happens, it’s time for me to work my magic and let her know how incredible she is. 

Emotional vulnerability can happen to anyone. It can happen to you or me at any time. It may feel like insecurity for one person or feeling lonely for the next. It may sound like, I’m not feeling loved right now, or you don’t appreciate me. Or it may outright say I feel unpretty. 

Beyond how I recognize the emotional vulnerability in my relationship, here’s what I do about it. 

6 WAYS I MAKE MY WIFE FEEL LOVED

1. I remind my wife that she is beautiful as often as possible and without being prompted. 
2. I buy my wife flowers, and I make sure they are the ones she likes. 
3. I hold my wife close and show her lots of affection. 
4. I pray for my wife, privately and also with her. 
5. I find special things to do for my wife and take her out.
6. I remind my wife of why I married her. 

After I do all of this, she is beaming and feeling beautiful from the inside out.